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  • wow, yeah, that was low. I'm sorry you had to go through that, but don't dwell on it for too long. Learn from it, and grow. Move on to a woman who respects you and adores you. Yes, there is one out there. Cheer up, friend. You're ok. She was in the …
  • You need to be very careful bringing someone as unreliable as this guy into your daughter's life. She's going to become attached to any guy you bring home, and you don't want it to be some unstable guy like this. He has bipolar disorder, you already…
  • No, you aren't wrong. I completely understand why you got upset. Maybe if other girls had been there, it would be different, but she was like a piece of steak in a lion's den. It's going to be hard for her to understand that you trust HER, you just …
  • I'm 21 and he's 23. We're getting married in 5 weeks (yea!!!) I think it's an age of maturity and understanding more than a numerical age. Last year, when we were engaged, I know I wasn't ready. I was only a junior in college, and hadn't yet made…
  • This is a moral/ethical question. Is this person a friend? Then it shouldn't matter if you aren't in a serious relationship. You should be honest. I don't think dishonesty is ever ok in relationships, unless you're sparing the truth to spare their f…
  • Sounds like you already know the answer. Of course, we don't know if you're some kind of psychotic stalker or a real creep, but if she keeps entering your mind, and you aren't a stalker, then go for it. It could be like in "Serendipity" wi…
  • You're an ***. It's one thing to tell her no, it's another to pathetically go online afterwards and brag about it. Get a life.
  • Compliment her on one day. Just enough to get her giggling about it to her friends later. Nothing like hitting on her or being sleezy or creepy or anything, just tell her she looks nice today or that you like her hair or something. Build it slowly, …
  • Maybe not. First of all, two months is a little soon to be using the "L" word with someone. And, you definitely don't want to say it if you KNOW she's not going to say it back. If you keep showering her with affection, she's going to feel …
  • I went with my sister and told HER which ones I liked, and then months later, behind my back, she emailed pictures to my then-boyfriend. He went and bought the ring and surprised me with a beautiful proposal. I never knew when he was going to propos…
  • He may not want to commit to anyone. Committing in a relationship can be really intimidating. Or maybe there's someone else that you don't know about. It could be that he's afraid of ruining the friendship if the dating thing doesn't work out. Or, m…
  • Um, I don't think "some guys" are like this. I've NEVER met a guy like this. It means he wants to use you like one of the women in his porn movies. Say no and leave.
  • Coming from a woman, I'd rather you be under agressive than overly agressive. I would rather have to flirt and tease to get you to come out of your shell than feel pressured into something or uncomfortable with you because you're pushing yourself on…
  • I feel sorry for her. She's obviously lonely, but it seems as though she isn't obsessing on a life spent with another person who loves her and understands her, she's only obsessing on the DAY. The wedding day is a 24 hour period just like any other …
  • Get in contact with him. If you really like him, that is. If this is just you wanting him because he's not interested anymore, then you have to move on and let him go so you don't hurt him. But, if you really genuinely like him, then YOU have to mak…
  • wow he has a girlfriend???? This needs to end before your son gets more attached to this guy and your son ends up getting hurt. You need to surround your son with people he can consistantly rely on and count on to be there for him. This is going to …
  • Wow, it sounds to me like this relationship needs to be put on hold indefinitely. If she said she "likes you a lot," then you aren't ready for marriage. Did she say she wants to give up her life and marry you?? Because that's what marriage…
  • You really need to tell a trusted adult, someone who cares who can get you the help you need. Adolescent theropists are there for teens to talk to. They have constructive ways of dealing with addiction, self mutilation, abuse, stress, depression and…
  • "So why even have a baby?" So does that imply that if you cannot breastfeed when you have a child of your own, you no longer want that child?? A woman's decision to breastfeed is very personal and can be centered on health reasons, biol…