Am i wrong to leave him?
My boyfriend has two kids, he is a great father and active in their lives. But he's too active, he's gone 6 nights out of the week going to practices, pta meetings, taking them out....and the list goes on. I respect his children and i do my best to be understanding about him spending so much time with them. but i want to leave him, this man is my soulmate and i love him more than anything, but i can't be second focus to anyone, his kids included.
he will call and cancel if his kids have an activity but not show me the same courtesy when i have something due at work or for school (which i believe are legit concerns)
i know i'm being selfish, but what else can i do, i want to leave him, i know its wrong but i don't know how to go about it.
they don't live with us, no i had to move an hour out of the way so that he can be closer to his kids. he has a 5 minute commute to work while i have a beautiful hr drive to school everyday, six sometimes seven days a week.
they live with their mom.