Should I end my relationship of 3 years?
Let me start off by stating that i know it's wrong, but I have been checking my boyfriends phone and other online accounts to make sure that he is being true to me. (What can I say, my trust had been tested by him in the past when I accidentally stumbled onto some texts that were definitely inappropriate.)
Anyway, he had been behaving until what I found in his phone tonight. He has been texting a girl that is 6 years younger than us. We are 24. I know he used to communicate with her before we were together, and now looks like they have been talking again. I didn't see much (I saw enough) but he had been asking her for naughty pictures and had been talking sexually with her. She sent him a few. She even told him she loved him! WTF?
I'm feed up, I thought he had been proving that I could trust him again. Nothing seems to be wrong in our relationship. We spend so much time together and are very loving to one another.
What should I do? I don't want to hurt him because he is SO sensitive but what about my feelings? and to boot we work at the same place, just different departments. This is simply not acceptable to me. Please, any helpful advise is appreciated.